Wednesday, 15 August 2012

Things I want to do in the near future...

1. Going on a Cruise.
It seems that a lot of people are doing this lately. I really want to just be out of sight with no connection to reality whatsoever... Just to have fun!
The MSC Opera Cruise Ship
If this is something you would like to do as well you can visit: http://www.msccruises.com/gl_en/select_your_country.aspx

2. Shark Cave Diving
This is a bit bold considering I'm one of those people who would never ever go sky diving or even bunjee jumping but I would really love to do it.
Swimming with the sharks... ion one way or the other!
If this is something you would like to do as well you can visit: http://www.sharkcagediving.co.za/

3. Paintballing
I've heard this is rather painful but hey, I just want that warrior feeling...
Picture taken at the Paintball Heaven- doesn't it make you feel like a warrior?
the nice thing about this is that its right under my nose and its affordable. Don't ask me why I haven't gone!
If you're interested visit: www.paintballheaven.co.za

4. Last but definitely not least... I would love to visit Mozambique!
There is something that is soooo relaxing about the islands and just being with people who don't know me. I would love to explore and experience another culture and this is something that definitely does it for me...
Donations anyone?
Beach at one of the resort in Moz... isn't it beautiful?

Almost Every Girl's Dream... The Wedding!!

Almost every girl (there are always exceptions) dreams of the day they will get married. What I'm specifically talking about is the Wedding Day. I fantasize about it a lot, I'm not even ashamed to say so, and that is because so much planning goes into it. Soooo, being the organizer I am, I decided to make a folder for myself a year ago where I insert all the concepts I would most likely go for. These ideas range from dresses, decor, colors, shoes... everything you can think of. I decided to share a few of my concepts:

Wedding Dress:
A little something like this... In white or cream of course!!
Decor: (what I've loved so far)
A little bit of this...
A little bit of this... 
.. and a little bit of this!
I'll make it work somehow.

Bridesmaids:
I am yet to discover some colors and a nice meals and invitations... just thinking about it makes me dizzy :)

P.S. This post is in mo way meant to scare away my future husband... Just sharing my thoughts!


Ideas have been adopted from: Wedding Gallery - http://wedding-gallery.net/index.php/Wedding-Dresses

60's Vintage!!!

I was overwhelmed with excitement when I received my cousins invitation last week where will be celebrating her achievements for becoming a Chartered Accountant. More than anything I think i was thrilled because its the first themed party I will be going to and for me, the theme is a concept out of my comfort zone. I'm in a position where I have to explore. So that's what I did... i checked out websites where I could get some ideas on what I could wear. Here are a few I liked...

The general trend is figure hugging and floral!!
I supposed this would be nice paired up with a nice hairstyle and hair accessory, and some gloves!
This probably won't work for someone with curves but I can always improvise!!
Oh my, this is 1959 but i think its close enough!
The designs are more or less the same. I'd like to hear from you.... which look is best?


Tuesday, 31 July 2012

National Arts Festival

Hi Everyone,

I'm well aware that it has been ages since I have last updated my blog. I wish life was all about blogging but that is not the case. There are so many demanding things in life like school and work, and they sure did have me all tied up...

I had an opportunity to let down my hair and have fun. I attended the National Arts Festival that is held in Grahamstown every year June/July. I was very excited about it. expecting to see the streets packed to capacity by stalls, with no space to move. well, it was this way at all. the streets were rather quiet and I was a bit disappointed to be honest. my friends and I ventured into the buildings and landed in a Fine Art Exhibition where we tried to think "deeper" about what could be behind what was drawn. we were successful in only one interpretation out of the many. I suppose it does require a certain skill after all. I unfortunately have no pictures to show case of the art gallery because no picture taking was allowed.

On the streets were small items that were on sale like these ornaments:

after we hit the streets a friend who was a performer contacted us and we took some time out to chill. later on that afternoon he took us to where everything was. when I got there i just felt a surge of excitement. it was buzzing with people and had numerous stalls where people were selling things like clothing and food. the fullest stall was where the alcohol was... I suppose people really wanted to unwind and we all have our different ways.

Some kids who were show casing their dancing talent for some donations...

This group, I'll call them entertainers, were very interesting. they danced and did little sketches. They even used some of the audiences members in their sketches.

Its eventually became necessary to fill our stomachs... We had nice boerewors rolls from one of the stalls.

After walking around, browsing through the stall, buying a few things here and there and eating, we were off to our very first appointment of the day... A live performance by the Muffinz, yes with a Z.

The Muffins are a the new kids on the block but by no means amateurs. In my opinion, they are going to take over the world, and I'm not saying this just gain their favor. It was my first time hearing them Live and they blew me away. Their performance was at a lovely venue called Prime and it started at 15:30. I thoroughly enjoyed it and I think they enjoyed my friends and I as an audience as well. Here are the gorgeous boys in action:
For more information on the Muffins you can visit their Facebook page on the link below:
https://www.facebook.com/TheMuffinzLive/info

After that performance the most exciting part of my day was upon me. I am a crazy fan of theater productions. I finally had an opportunity to view one after a very long time. The play that I went to go and watch with my best friend who shares the same sentiments was called Mies Julie. The production was so deep with meaning and emotion i literally had my mouth open the whole time. The actors were talented and they owned their characters. The review can be found below:
http://www.nationalartsfestival.co.za/show/mies-julie-makes-a-mark/

I must be honest I really had a good time with all my friends. We ended off the night with supper that was cooked by yours truly :) joined by the Muffinz who were dying to have a proper meal (the life of bachelors) and some drinks (Appletizer and such) at Pirates, a chill spot in G-Town.

Would I go again? Definately. If you haven't been... take the time! It is well worth it.

The Kim Kardashian Look

One Saturday at church I was dressed in my very gorgeous, if I do say so myself, ankle boots I had bought from YDE (Young Designers Emporium). A friend of mine approached me and complimented my boots. the statement she made next is what inspired this post. She said, Mandy, you should rock these boots the way Kim Kardashian would, especially because you have the body to rock it! Don't roll your eyes at me though, it came right from the horses mouth so i'm not blowing my own  horn at all... So how can one rock the Kim Kardashian look?

What you will need:
A Black Blazer. It can have buttons or not. its up to you...

A white tank top. You can make it any color though. but keep it classy!

A pair of shiny black leggings. Non Negotiable!


and to seal the deal, a pair of suede ankle stiletto boots! (Sexy heal work too)

The finished product:


And to accessorize, if you're that person:


A nice big hand bag.

And there you have it... 

Thursday, 12 July 2012

Procrastination

Procrastination is the thief of time.  ~Edward Young


Isn't that a quote we've heard all to often? How amazing it is that even I use it while I am busy procrastinating, making it a joke that oh so true. These past few months I have been bombarded with soooo many assignments and procrastination just wasn't the answer. Yet somehow I found so many ways to pass my time. You're probably a victim of procrastination as well, and quite frankly I want to move away from being its victim. But how does one STOP procrastinating. 

Let me first share with you what it is that I most often that is not in my daily schedule... you can compare and you can share yours too:

I'm a game junkie and recently I discovered that greatest game that I have ever played... Well, maybe not greatest is its pretty great and addictive too. Its called Bubble Safari on Facebook; people who are my contacts on Facebook are probably frantically nodding their heads in agreement because of the numerous requests they have received from me.

Bubble Safari
This has to be the most time consuming procrastinating tool I uitlise.

But generally here is the program in brief:
I'll spend my days looking for anything interesting on Google, in between I will chat on Whatsapp and on Facebook Chat and i'll tweet here and there. When I find nothing interesting I will go on people's profile and start looking at their pictures. When that gets boring I will day dream a little, then have lunch, a little nap because i'm tired. more chatting and more Bubble Safari. After hours it get worse because of the demon called TV, moving from one Soapie to another, Days of our Lives, 7de Laan, News(constructive time use :)), Isidingo, Generations, Muvhango and then its generally too late to do anything.


Its all very ridiculous if you ask me, because at the end of the day I have to power to overcome my own useless habits and utilize my time the best way I can. 

Looking at it from a serious point of view procrastination is always triggered by something. By that I mean that there is a cause for procrastinating. It can either be cause you are lazy, stress or you lack motivation, just to name a few, but whatever the reason maybe it is the first step to overcoming procrastination. The video below tells you how you can overcome procrastination:

Here are a few other references for your convenience on overcoming procrastination that I have found to make sense and have assisted me with my bad habit of procrastination:




Don't let it overcome you,Empower yourself to overcome it!

REMEMBER: TIME WASTED NEVER RETURNS....

Wednesday, 6 June 2012

Vuyelwa Vatiswa Ntshangase

Hi everyone, it has been a while. School this side with its demands and work that side with its own attention seeking stunts. This post is dedicated to a very Special Lady in my life, and today she reaches a milestone... 21!!!

Vuyelwa Vatiswa "Lindi" Ntshangase
Meet my best friend, Lindi. We have been friends for a very very long time. She is a truely amazing person. I've been jealous about sharing her, I've bullied her, I've witnessed every important event she's had in her life, we've fought, we've supported each other, she's cared for me and never judged me. We have so many memories together.
She was once a timid person who bruised easily and she is now a grown woman who is strong, confident, intelligent and in control.
Before I send out my dedication, here are a few from friends...

Happy Birthday Lindi- Sesethu Cekeshe

A birthday wish from Likho and Thandeka Dabata:
Happy birthday Lindi! Hope you will feel as special as you made me feel on my birthday way even if I'm not there in person!!! I love you dear friend!!! ENJOY!!!

Likho also wishing you a happy birthday!!!
From me:

Friendship is:
Good friendship is important in earthly life
True friendship is a rare find, lasting a life-time
Friendship is supportive, wholesome and priceless
Friendship must grow but is difficult to keep.

Friendship affords joy, solace and distraction
Friendship gives a better meaning to life
Friendship may deliver what parents sometimes fail to
Friendship is valuable, useful and advantageous.

Friendship makes the world a better place to live
Friendship makes living worthwhile, loveable and liveable
Friendship creates the right environs for sharing
The basis of good friendship is selfless, dedicated love of a special kind.

Friendship is there where ever you go
Friendship is there when you over dose
Friendship loves and Friendship cares
Friendship is life with a little dares

Friendship hurts when your not there
Friendship is love with a little cost
And that's why 'Friendship' is what it is today
Friendship means multiple meanings everyday

I just want to say Happy Birthday
to you my dear, dear friend
you have always been there for me
and I Hope our friendship will never end!

Looking forward to many more years of fun and friendship!


Friendship is You and Me
This is the BIG 21. May it bring wisdom and happiness above all else!!! 

Thursday, 24 May 2012

Winter must Have's!

Its that chilly time of the year again, Winter, and seemingly the chill get worse every year. The colder it is, the lazier we get. It's difficult getting out of bed, its difficult leaving the house, going to the gym is a mission (well for me) and all you want to do is stay snuggled up in your blankets, eating foods that you'll regret having in the season to come.

In short, Winter for me is a very unpleasant season. If i had my way I'd just skip it, hibernate maybe, because i just cannot bear the cold. Its unfortunate though that life will not wait for me, the hustle continues right through winter. So, i found a coping mechanism... And i wanna share it with you. 

10 Items that make Winter pleasant:

1. The Electric Blanket


An electric blanket is an electric heating device which is placed below the bottom bed sheet. It is used to pre-heat the bed before use or to keep the occupant warm while in bed. The Nice thing about the one at Woolworths is that you can set the temperature you want and the hours you want it on between one to eight hours.
Prices range from R 550 depending on the size you want!


2. Fan Heater

A fan heater works by using a fan to pass air over a heating element. This heats up the air, which then leaves the heater, warming up the surrounding room. The nice ting about it is that it is portable and works really fast. The Russel Hobbs Fan Heater can be found at Woolworths for R 299






3. Hot Water Bottle

This item is easy to use and is extremely affordable. all you do is boil water and pour it in the bottle and its done. The nice thing about it is, you can use it at the office, in bed or just when you're sitting around watching TV. At Jet Mart it goes for R 19.99







4. Fleece Blankets

Just to snuggle up while watching that movie or series. It even comes in handy when travelling during the cold winter days and when you're up and studying late for that exam. This Fleece Blanket goes for R 149 at @HOME




So far we've listed some appliances and bedroom accessories. Lets look at some apparel.

5. Coat




 Just because its cold it doesn't mean that you don't have to look good. A coat, and they come in many lengths, sizes, colours and designs, is the perfect thing to have. I just recently bought my first one and oh how it makes me warm! The one in the picture can be found at Foshini and goes for R 590.



6. Boots




Another must have are boots. not only are they helpful for extremely cold day but they are life savers for the rainy days during the winter season. i took a particular liking to these Riding Boots available at Edgars available for R 399.95



7. Stockings/Opaques




Some ladies just feel comfortable wearing their short dresses even through winter because they still want to look good. Stocking are a must have for them because their legs are covered by stockings or opaque tights. The one in the picture  regulate your temperature and manage moisture for superior comfort, so you feel your best all day. you can buy them at Woolworths for R 59.95.


8. Scarf and Gloves


Scarfs protect your neck from the cold and keep you warm.








Gloves keep your hands warm. I don't own these yet but they are definitely on my to buy list.



The items displayed found at Foshini for R 140 andR 130 Respectively





9. Beret/Beanies



Something so cover your head and ears. especially in the early hours of the morning! Beanie from Foshini at R 100








Lastly,

10. Soup



What better to close of the list like Soup. The only item on my list that warms you on the inside. Knorr Cup-a-Soup is one of my most favourite things to have during winter. I love it especially because you can just pop a sachet in your purse and during tea time you can make it for yourself. you'll just feel all fuzzy inside.





I hope you be on your way to get one of these items as well. And if you already have  all or most of them then good for you! Also note that even though i mentioned a few stores most of these products can be found in many store, from different brands and for other prices.

Have a pleasant Winter, because you know how!!!




Wednesday, 23 May 2012

Music-Poetry Part 2


I think music in itself is healing. It's an explosive expression of humanity. It's something we are all touched by. No matter what culture we're from, everyone loves music.
Billy Joel

I couldn’t agree more but let’s get a bit theoretical first by asking the question, what is music?

The writer Philip Dorrel put it this way: It’s what comes out of the speakers when we play a CD on our stereo. It’s what we hear on the radio. Music is singers singing and musicians playing. Music is a sound that we enjoy hearing. He continued on to say music creates emotions, or interacts with the emotions we already feel and, sometimes, it makes us want to dance. Music is something that people create and something that people respond to.   

Rightly employed, music is a precious gift of God, designed to uplift the thoughts to high and noble themes, to inspire and elevate the soul. E. G White

I must admit I love music, and not just listening to it but singing it. The emotions I get from singing are ones I cannot really express, so I tried to make a little illustration to show what music does to me:

Of course, there are various types of music but my genre of choice is Adventist Gospel Music. This is influenced by the fact that I am myself and Adventist. I come from a musically inclined family; my dad sings baritone, my mother has a beautiful soprano voice, my sister is an alto, my brother is almost an all-rounder (his voice ranges from tenor to bass) and I can sing soprano, alto and tenor.

My Musical Family- A true blessing!


 I have included a few videos for you to watch. Enjoy!

My Family singing Don't Look Back

Anointed- a trio comprising myself and my to friends Lebohang Liphapang and Siphokazi Dabata singing Worthy is the Lamb

Anointed singing I repent with Kwande Cakata my cousin playing the piano for us!

And remember...
After silence, that which comes nearest to expressing the inexpressible is music.
Aldous Huxley.

Thursday, 17 May 2012

Poetry!!


I am a very sentimental person. I have this box where I keep a bunch of items that I’ve either received from people or invitations with meaning and memory and so on. As I was going through my 'memory' box this weekend I came across something I had written. It was a poem I had written in high school and it brought my attention to something about poetry. And that is the fact that poetry exists because of a four letter word, LOVE. You feel the need to express your passion (love) for something. I’m not a poet but that is what it means to me.
Even though I wrote poetry in High School I’m not a poet, poetry requires some sort of skill, which by my own will I have accepted I do not possess. For clarities sake i'm referring in this post to written and spoken poetry and not written and sung (music) poetry because i know all too well how to express myself in that department.  There are a few people though who possess this skill and amongst these is a girl named Abigail Ndlovu.


Abigail Ndlovu- Bsc (Hons) Quantity Surveying Student and Poet

 After High School poetry started getting really boring to me, I supposed my interest at the time was aroused by the fact that I was dating a poet, until a few weeks ago when I heard a poem being recited by this lovely young lady. Her poetry caught my attention and lit a spark that made me appreciate poetry again. I got a chance to interview Abigail about her perspective on poetry and this is what she had to say:

1.       How would you define poetry

Poetry is an opening up of the heart's portals; speaking out what's been written on the heart's pages by experience through the hand of inspiration.

In simple terms it is writing out one's experiences, emotions and just anything that comes to mind. Poets are take inspiration from just anything.

2.       When did you start writing poetry and why?

I've always written but never really took it seriously. I would write pieces and tear them up afterwards, or just write and never share with anyone. But it was in 2010, and I do not really like to mention this but I have to be honest, it was after a bad relationship that I went back to writing poetry. My first piece was 'Faithfulness to Strength-Song of a healing Woman'. And many more pieces would thereafter follow. I am mighty glad I went back to writing. It feels so good to be doing something I enjoy. Moreover, I write because I figured, it is a way to evangelize, as you may have noted, I write Christian poetry, if I should call it that. We all have spiritual gifts and as this quarter's Bible Study Guide tells us, no gift is too small to use to tell
God's children about Him.

3.       I say poetry is all about LOVE, what do you say?

I agree. It is about love, it is for love, it is through love. Love could be the main theme of a poem. We have poets who write solely about love. And I also believe that poets write out of love, love being the driving factor behind their poems. Writing because they love it and with love for those for whom they write. For example, when a poet writes a piece with a message of warning, that's primarily because they have love and care for their audience and would love for them to hear that message and most likely make a change for the better. That is my comment in short.

4.       Explain how you feel when reciting your poetry

Honestly…nervous. I am always nervous. There is no getting used to standing before God’s children to deliver a message from Him through my feeble lips. Well, everybody gets nervous standing before an audience, but I get nervous also because as I said, I believe the poems I recite are messages from God for me and all His children, so I get nervous because I know how important the message is and so I should not spoil it or let my personality get in the way of God’s children receiving it. Also I worry because I do not want to excite my audience with mere word-play but want them to get the message when I am done. 
Below are 2 poems by Abigail, indulge in them as I have and POETS, let me hear (or read in this case) what POETRY is to you!

NO BEDTIME STORY

This is no lullaby to put you to your sweet sleep
This is the alarm with no snooze button come to forever ring in your senses
For too long we’ve let the world tuck us to bed early and read us bedtime stories
Or on days that we’ve been naughty deny us a bedtime story and shout ‘lights out!’
But even though I’m also denying you that bedtime story, I’ve come to echo “Let your lower lights be burning!”
No way do we light a lamp and put it under a bushel
But we let our light so shine before God’s lambs out there in the cold
So don’t stay tucked in while Jesus cried for them “Poor sheep with no shepherd”
Hear His cry and wake up!!!

Because a little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest-
And poverty will come on you like a bandit and scarcity like an armed man
A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest-
And the souls impoverished of the Word will be counted on your head when He comes, Keeper of the Sheep
Won’t you get up from your sleep?

Church, we need to wake up and set the pace as the world follows from behind
But at this moment the church stands as a bride to the world and the devil as minister is about to seal this unholy matrimony
To the feeble human mind there is no telling how long this marriage will last but Scripture warns against unions with the world
Scripture foresees a drastic divorce with the bride left stranded as she committed to a pre-nuptial contract because you see, she didn’t bring anything into this marriage
You can’t bring anything to the world’s dinner table
It stands as host and feeds you its well balanced diet of lies and mediocrity as the starter course and hypocrisy and compromised principles as its main dish
You have just read the menu; I advise you to make a decision not to partake
But it is funny coz even with this reality before our eyes we still order
See many of us have abrogated our lease contacts with reality
And sought accommodation with pretence, fantasy and denial
Building castles in the air with no foundation
We need to seek a city with foundations whose builder is God
Coz we’ve rejected the corner stone and forgot that these temples ought to stand firm upon the Rock of Ages, King Jesus Himself
And He calls on us to be sober and vigilant for our enemy the devil proweth about seeking whom he may devour
But how can we even hear his roar from afar and flee when our ears are blocked with the wax of the petty things of this world?
Won’t we clean our ears with the water from the Fountain of Living Waters and see the things that really matter?
Wake up! And proclaim the gospel of truth
Wake up! And feed the multitudes by the voice of your works
Let it echo through the corridors where you have not set foot
Let it venture into platforms you cannot climb
Heed to the call, and proclaim the gospel of truth
Wake up! And feed the multitudes by the voice of your works

This is no lullaby to put you to your sweet sleep
This is the alarm with no snooze button come to forever ring in your senses
Wake up!!!
By: Abigail T. Ndlovu

and

HEART MUSIC

My heart’s like unto a brightly polished grand piano
Standing in the middle of a hollow room in this earth house ready for God to play a piece of music on it
The keys of my heart are ready Lord; please play a tune for your children
As my fingers dance to the rhythm of my heart’s instrumentals
This melody springs forth setting my African feet to the dance to this poetic harmony
My whole body’s shaken by this tapestry of words
An arrangement actually composed by the Master Himself, Jesus
Springing forth from my lips, reaching your ears and setting your feet to the dance too
I see the joy in your eyes
This is no ordinary sound
But yet, none than we are accustomed to
With notes reaching as high as Mount Calvary, coming down to the pit of your heart with an ever-increasing pitch of His love
Our hearts join together in chorus and sing “Oh what a day that will be when we shall stand-man and angels singing in that mass choir conducted by King Jesus Himself”
Singing a melody whose words our hearts have kept a secret from our lips throughout the ages…
Heart Music…
A special thanks to Abby who allowed me to use her material on my blog.